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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, David Tolan Sr who was born in Indiana on May 19, 1977 and passed away on April 21, 2006 at the age of 28. We will remember him forever.

 


 

David was born and raised in Indiana. He had a loving Mother and Father. He attended Manual High School where he was very involved in sports. He was on the Football and Wrestling team. David was very outgoing and he also loved to play Basketball. His nickname that people used often was "Dee". David was a Great person all around. He was the type of person that would give you the shirt off his own back. He would call his Mom every night and tell her good night and that he loved her. If he loved you he gave it his all and he loved you with everything he had. I still remember when he had Haylee his eyes just lit up like a proud Dad, and when he had David Jr. he was so proud that his son was carrying on his name David Scott Tolan Jr. and he loved them so much. He was a family man and his family was everything to him. He was the one who set Me and Shane up and I still remember it like it was yesterday. Dee and Shane were the best of friends anyone could be to eachother. They were always there for one another and had eachothers back no matter what happened. David and Shane always loved Football and are the biggest Colts fans I've ever known. They would always call eachother back and forth when Football was on. There were alot of ups and downs throughout Dee's life but he always stayed positive. He just couldn't take loosing his family because they were everything to him. It hurt him more than ever when he felt like he was loosing everything. He had all his family and friends that loved him and needed him I think he just didn't realize that. He was such a giving person and he showed it when he passed away by donating his organs to others who needed them. They say God only takes the best and David definitely was one of the best. Now when I look at his kids I see him, they look so much like him and their the only piece of David we have left. David is truly a Great person and I'm glad I had the chance to know him. Now he's no longer in pain. He'll be our Angel forever.

Please Don’t Judge Me

“Don’t judge me for how I left this world,
Remember the love I gave
A lot of grief will follow me
For the decision that I made
Changes appear in everyone’s life
Some good, some bad
The one I chose for myself
Made everyone sad
But in time memories will heal the hurt of hearts
And my presence will be felt by all with an inner peace
Remember me when the sun is bright and laughter fills the air
And moonlit night and a whisper of wind
Will tell you I am there
Don’t look down on my family
Or fill their hearts with blame
For my leaving them without good-byes
They will never be the same
If I could go back in time
I’d say a last good-bye
I’d tell them to look to tomorrow
And for me…do not cry…”







 

 

Don't cry for Me Dad

Don't cry for me Dad,

I'm right here.

Although you can't see me

I see your tears.

I visit you often,

I go to work with you each day,

And when it's time for you

to close your eyes ,

On your pillow is where I lay.

I hold your hand &

stroke your hair,

And whisper in your ear.

If you're sad today Dad,

Remember, I am here.

God took me home.

This we know is true.

But you'll always be My Dad

Even though I'm not with you.

We will never be apart,

For everytime you think of me,

Please know I'm in your Heart......

Happy Father's Day Dad

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Mom, please don’t feel guilty
It was just my time to go.
I see you are still feeling sad,
And the tears just seem to flow.

We all come to earth for our lifetime, And for some it’s not many years I don’t want you to keep crying You are shedding so many tears.

I haven’t really left you
Even though it may seem so.
I have just gone to my heavenly home, And I’m closer to you than you know.

Just believe that when you say my name I’m standing next to you, I know you long to see me,
AND I AM WITH YOU.

But I’ll still send you messages
And hope you understand,
That when your time comes to “cross over,” I’ll be there to take your hand.

                                                                                                                                     


I Am Always With You
When I am gone, release me, let me go.
I have so many things to see and do,
You mustn't tie yourself to me with too many tears,
But be thankful we had so many good years.
I gave you my love, and you can only guess
How much you've given me in happiness.
I thank you for the love that you have shown,
But now it is time I traveled on alone.
So grieve for me a while, if grieve you must
Then let your grief be comforted by trust
That it is only for a while that we must part,
So treasure the memories within your heart.
I won't be far away for life goes on.
And if you need me, call and I will come.
Though you can't see or touch me, I will be near
And if you listen with your heart, you'll hear
All my love around you soft and clear
And then, when you come this way alone,
I'll greet you with a smile and a "Welcome Home"







                                                                                                                                                                                                                
    
  
                                        
         




                                    


    
                 


      


                           
                                 
                   
                           


     
                                   

                    


                                                          



                           




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Memorial Tiles
http://www.parentsofsuicide.com/ismw.html



 

David's picure has also been put on
the faces of suicide site

http://www.pos-ffos.com/ 

Just wanted to let everyone know that David's name has been added to the Suicide Memorial Wall

Section 6

www.suicidememorialwall.com


http://www.we-remember-them.com/showdata.php?section=4





 

Click here to see David Tolan Sr's
Family Tree
Tributes and Condolences
To My Daddy   / Dee Dee Jr (son)
Daddy you are my favorite Dad.  I miss you very much.  Me and Haylee think about you everyday.  Please watch over us Daddy.  Love your son David Jr
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WE MISS YOU SO MUCH ITS SO HARD TO GO ON WITHOUT YOU HERE. THINGS ARE SO DIFFERENT NOW. I NEVER THOUGHT THINGS WOULD TURN OUT LIKE THIS. YOU WERE SUCH A GREAT LOVING. CARING. GIVING PERSON AND YOU SHOULD BE HERE WITH US. WE LOVE YOU AND ITS VERY...  Continue >>
The worlds greatest   / Jonathon Tolan (Nephew)
Sup.... uncle. I am truly sorry. I think of the days leading to your last days. And all i can remember is you saying you needed a friend. throughout the years you was there for me when i wasnt even there for myself. Than you needed help. I am sorry. ...  Continue >>
To My Brother   / Billie Jo (lil sis )
I miss you so much and I haven't been on here that much but you are always in my thoughts I miss you so much.I'm having another baby I hope I have a girl and lil Chaz is getting so big.He will be 2 in august.I wish he could of got to know his uncle D...  Continue >>
ILL SEE U WEN I GET THERE   / BROOK (LIL SIS )
I MISS U SO MUCH DAVID...I HAVE ALL U STUFF ON MY WALL N I PRAY EVERY NIGHT THAT ILL SEE U N MY DREAMS SO I CAN TALK TO U ONE LAST TIME...D U'V HELPED ME THREW SO MUCH N I JUSS WISH U COULD BE HERE TO SEE HOW FAR I'VE CAME FROM WAT I WAS BEFORE...N I...  Continue >>
tears / Cassidy Mitchell (niece)    Read >>
It's been 5 years  / Jessica (Cousin)    Read >>
10-13-2010 / Anita Alderson (sister)    Read >>
It's Harder  / Sis Billie Jo     Read >>
To Dee  / Kayla (cousin)    Read >>
Happy New Year !  / Cassie Mitchell ((niece))    Read >>
the day you left  / Ashley (sister in law )    Read >>
You was'nt their  / Sis Ashley     Read >>
My thoughts and prayers are with David's family  / Tina Tappy     Read >>
???????????? / Some One Thats Concern     Read >>
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HAYLEE SOCCOR 2008
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