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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, David Tolan Sr who was born in Indiana on May 19, 1977 and passed away on April 21, 2006 at the age of 28. We will remember him forever.
David was born and raised in Indiana. He had a loving Mother and Father. He attended Manual High School where he was very involved in sports. He was on the Football and Wrestling team. David was very outgoing and he also loved to play Basketball. His nickname that people used often was "Dee". David was a Great person all around. He was the type of person that would give you the shirt off his own back. He would call his Mom every night and tell her good night and that he loved her. If he loved you he gave it his all and he loved you with everything he had. I still remember when he had Haylee his eyes just lit up like a proud Dad, and when he had David Jr. he was so proud that his son was carrying on his name David Scott Tolan Jr. and he loved them so much. He was a family man and his family was everything to him. He was the one who set Me and Shane up and I still remember it like it was yesterday. Dee and Shane were the best of friends anyone could be to eachother. They were always there for one another and had eachothers back no matter what happened. David and Shane always loved Football and are the biggest Colts fans I've ever known. They would always call eachother back and forth when Football was on. There were alot of ups and downs throughout Dee's life but he always stayed positive. He just couldn't take loosing his family because they were everything to him. It hurt him more than ever when he felt like he was loosing everything. He had all his family and friends that loved him and needed him I think he just didn't realize that. He was such a giving person and he showed it when he passed away by donating his organs to others who needed them. They say God only takes the best and David definitely was one of the best. Now when I look at his kids I see him, they look so much like him and their the only piece of David we have left. David is truly a Great person and I'm glad I had the chance to know him. Now he's no longer in pain. He'll be our Angel forever.


Please Don’t Judge Me
“Don’t judge me for how I left this world, Remember the love I gave A lot of grief will follow me For the decision that I made Changes appear in everyone’s life Some good, some bad The one I chose for myself Made everyone sad But in time memories will heal the hurt of hearts And my presence will be felt by all with an inner peace Remember me when the sun is bright and laughter fills the air And moonlit night and a whisper of wind Will tell you I am there Don’t look down on my family Or fill their hearts with blame For my leaving them without good-byes They will never be the same If I could go back in time I’d say a last good-bye I’d tell them to look to tomorrow And for me…do not cry…”


Don't cry for Me Dad
Don't cry for me Dad,
I'm right here.
Although you can't see me
I see your tears.
I visit you often,
I go to work with you each day,
And when it's time for you
to close your eyes ,
On your pillow is where I lay.
I hold your hand &
stroke your hair,
And whisper in your ear.
If you're sad today Dad,
Remember, I am here.
God took me home.
This we know is true.
But you'll always be My Dad
Even though I'm not with you.
We will never be apart,
For everytime you think of me,
Please know I'm in your Heart......
Happy Father's Day Dad ======================
  
      
Mom, please don’t feel guilty It was just my time to go. I see you are still feeling sad, And the tears just seem to flow.
We all come to earth for our lifetime, And for some it’s not many years I don’t want you to keep crying You are shedding so many tears.
I haven’t really left you Even though it may seem so. I have just gone to my heavenly home, And I’m closer to you than you know.
Just believe that when you say my name I’m standing next to you, I know you long to see me, AND I AM WITH YOU.
But I’ll still send you messages And hope you understand, That when your time comes to “cross over,” I’ll be there to take your hand.

I Am Always With You When I am gone, release me, let me go. I have so many things to see and do, You mustn't tie yourself to me with too many tears, But be thankful we had so many good years. I gave you my love, and you can only guess How much you've given me in happiness. I thank you for the love that you have shown, But now it is time I traveled on alone. So grieve for me a while, if grieve you must Then let your grief be comforted by trust That it is only for a while that we must part, So treasure the memories within your heart. I won't be far away for life goes on. And if you need me, call and I will come. Though you can't see or touch me, I will be near And if you listen with your heart, you'll hear All my love around you soft and clear And then, when you come this way alone, I'll greet you with a smile and a "Welcome Home"


 




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David's picure has also been put on the faces of suicide site
http://www.pos-ffos.com/
Just wanted to let everyone know that David's name has been added to the Suicide Memorial Wall
Section 6
www.suicidememorialwall.com
http://www.we-remember-them.com/showdata.php?section=4
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